{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Grafton","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.grafton.org","author_name":"Sharlene Stowers, Local System Manager","author_url":"https:\/\/www.grafton.org\/author\/sharlenestowers\/","title":"A Different Dream - Grafton","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"SPI4uzme0B\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.grafton.org\/a-different-dream\/\">A Different Dream<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/www.grafton.org\/a-different-dream\/embed\/#?secret=SPI4uzme0B\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8220;A Different Dream&#8221; &#8212; Grafton\" data-secret=\"SPI4uzme0B\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script type=\"text\/javascript\">\n\/* <![CDATA[ *\/\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/* ]]> *\/\n<\/script>\n","description":"Emily Perl Kingsley recently wrote an essay called Welcome to Holland (www.our-kids.org\/Archives\/Holland.html), wherein she compares raising a child with a disability to planning a fabulous vacation in Italy, and then, after much anticipation, arriving in Holland\u2014a completely different place from the one you imagined.  She says the loss of the dream is significant and never really goes away. But if you spend your time focusing on that loss, you will miss the special and lovely things your unexpected detour can give you. It\u2019s a subject that bears discussion.","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/www.grafton.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/logo.png","thumbnail_width":1779,"thumbnail_height":417}